Sense of belonging is a need, just like food or love…
It’s a practicing journey that I must switch my mind to look for ways I am similiar with other rather than focusing on ways i’m diferent. Also, I try to work on acceptance of others. Acceptance doesnt mean agreement. Sometimes, i find that there are always reasons for people to think, say and behave by their own way.
Since the moment my mentor told me about validation – the acknowledgement that someone’s CHIs is understandable.
The first CHI means bloodline or parents/family that you are born and raise. The second one is the native, culture and the person you are taught/told to become. Both of the CHIs is unchangeable. However, the last CHI is a special person that you dont know when you will meet and by then turn youself completely to another page. They could be your lover, spouse, manager or friend or a mentor. All of these three CHIs build up a belief system in each people – good or bad, angle or evil, rich or poor, kind or selfish…
Validation – accept the value of others even when you disagree ♥️
Enjoy!
MunMun
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